I was reminded by Yenny’s question on her facebook. For me, it is like asking, is this positioning statement (in advertising) the one that I’ve been looking for all the while? Gampang – gampang susah jawabannya. So, how to know whether he is the one or not? Is it by looking at his criteria; understanding, caring, humble, supportive, honest, rich, smart, intelligent, diligent, and so on? How if there is someone who is more caring, more understanding, more in everything than the one now, are we gonna left the current one and go for it? When we still have this never satisfy feeling, choosy and always compare one and another, it will be hard to find and decide that “Yes, he is the one for me, my Mr.Right”.

In Oh Dal Ja’s Spring (K-drama), Dal Ja also faced a difficult situation of choosing her Mr.Right. There is Kang Tae Bong, a younger 6 years old, fake bf / spare tire that is so mysterious and seems to be jobless but caring and warm. On the other hand, the married man but separate with his wife for 2 years, Uhm Gi Joong seems to be an ideal man for her with a good carreer but too cool, life is just about work and work. For some time, she was going here and there. Of course, she scared of choosing a wrong man and lose the golden oppotunity. Who doesn’t anyway?

Well, I’m not an expert in this field. I’m just a young lady in the age of 21 years old. But, I don’t think there is one particular answer for this question. Although there is so many tips & tricks and quizzes online on finding Mr & Miss Right. For me, it’s just a gut feel. When I fall, I will fall 100%. When both party do like this, the result will be obvious.

Anyway, there is no right or wrong in love, so fuck with Mr.Right or Ms.Right. Or even The One, because it is only exist in the Matrix world.