Marriage in the young age

November 21st, 2007

The joy of working with people from various ages is that I get to know how people at their ages think, the gossip topics, etc. There is alot more exposure than keep mixing with the same age friends that came from the same background. Besides that, I can get some idea to blog. =P Just like today.

One of the colleague who is at the age of mid thirty, said that she feels jealous of the ex-classmates. No, it’s not because her friend has just received a diamond ring from the husband. But because their children have already grown up and mostly in senior high school. Basically can take care of themselves, so the parents could have their own time and space. While her children are still in Primary year. Hah!

Well, that is the good side for those who get married in a young age, 18-22 years old and have babies immediately. Because by the time they reach 40 years old, all the children has grown up, either having their uni time or graduate and married. Worries gone! Here comes spa time, second honeymoon to Paris leaving the teens at home, etc. Probably going to be a young granny if the children also get married in the young age.

But, there is the time when those who get married in the young age would feel jealous towards those who don’t. That’s when they have to take care of the baby themselves at a very young age. Imagine the troublesome. While their friends are having the single and full of freedom life. I don’t think I need to talk more about the differences.

The thing is, we, human often get jealous with others situation. “If only, I wish,” this is some of the words that we often say. Whatever it is, every path that we choose has its own goodness. So, married in the age below 25 years old or after that? I think 25 is the ideal age. But, let’s just see ;)

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