Eh? It’s Monday already? And this Friday is the last day of the month before we enter November? What? We only have 2 months left before 2011 comes? I am not so ready yet to enter my mid 20, I still want to be in my early 20s can? Cause it sounds… young.
I don’t want to be rushed by hometown neighborhood aunties on when are we going to have a baby. This is unavoidable question once you get married, especially on the 1st year of marriage. If they still don’t see you carrying a baby on second year, those aunties might create assumption that you’re having fertility problem or so, while we just want to concentrate on business. Hey, we only have 10 years of being 20s. Not gonna waste it by following the norm – married then follows by baby. We’ll have one when we are ready, not just financially but emotionally ready.
Besides baby issue, they also tend to say “O-mai-gawd, you’re so skinny. Eat more, my dear.” Eh? If eating more meal or increase my portion can fattening me or increase my weight, then decreasing weight or diet will be very easy also, no? Just reduce the amount of meal, then what for diet pills right?
The worse thing is, I can only smile and nod head to whatever the elderly are saying in the name of respect. While deep down inside I’m very itchy and can’t stand wanting to give my own opinion, but that will be seen as disrespect to them.
End of rant. My cup is half empty now, ready to be filled with more positive stuffs.