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Tuesday, July 15th, 2008
One month seems to be so short. I feel like it is yesterday when he appeared at my front door and now he is on the way to airport with my dad. Loneliness strikes me now. For the past 1 month I have someone beside me and now it is all quiet and empty. That’s the pain of LDR; for a moment I am at the heaven, everything seems to be so sweet and happy, the next moment I am thrown back to the earth and find that I am alone. Sigh.
I have been going out almost everyday when he was here. From today onwards, I am back to the basic lifestyle, keeping myself at home. 
There goes the tea time at Ajo sate padang, fun time at Timezone, cracking head together with the paid post, and so on. Too much memory to be said.
Sinking myself in work is the best thing to stop myself from crying and reminiscing the good old time. Thanks G I have some design work to rush now. After this, I gotta update Medan Daily.
Till we meet again, my dear. September is not far from now.
Friday, July 11th, 2008
In a blink of eye it is the 7th month of 2008 already. Together we have sailed through the big wave and storm from the ocean of LDR for the past 14 months.
It is not easy for sure to keep the relationship alive. You know, not having each other physically by side, no eye contact, no comforting hug, no holding each other hand. All we have is just words and icons on lcd screen to represent our feeling. Misunderstanding happens sometimes and we quarrel for a small thing.
Physical appearance and spending time with each other is very important. Therefore, we fly every 2 or 3 months to see each other. Something that is hard to do if i were still woking 8-6.
I have tried to look for a job in kl to end this ldr. But it didn’t work. The next option is to get married. While he works, I will be a house wife or involve in activity like Phoenix assisted living homes - taking care of seniors. It sounds great but we will pass this for now. The last option is to move to another country where both of us can work there. We couldn’t find any other better place than the merlion hometown, singapore, the heaven for foreign workers.
Til then, we have to suck up with the distance. Half year to go til he finishs his advertising degree. Half year to go for me to polish my skill and portfolio and also saving money for the job hunting in singapore.
We will be doing good.
Thursday, June 19th, 2008
So what if,
He never brought me to a luxurious restaurant for a candlelight dinner,
He never gave me a diamond ring or any other expensive jewelry,
He never presented a huge bucket of roses on Valentine’s Day,
He never bought a human size Teddy bear on my birthday,
He never got a Tuscany villa rentals for me,
So what if he never did all those things?
After all, he appeared in my front door early in the morning when I thought he was supposed to be at the other country dealing with his assignments and submission! How sweet it is… I’m so gonna marry him if he asks me to right now.
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Wednesday, June 18th, 2008
Last night on msn, I asked the boyfriend when will he come to Medan. It’s middle of June, ain’t that semester break time? But, he said he still have submission on this Friday and he can only come here in the next two weeks. I was oh-so-down, patah semangat.
Then this morning, almost 9am, I was surfing the internet when the door bell rang. Oh well, who would come here early in the morning? As I open the door, there he was, a very familiar figure that was supposed to be in KL at that very moment. My man is here!!!
Now I understand what did Yen means by,”somebody please be prepared for a surprise”. Er, I supposed I am correct about what she means, if I am wrong, never mind.
I am going to sleep with a huge smile on my face tonight.
Saturday, June 14th, 2008
Mates, Dates and Sole Survivors is one of the chicklit series by Cathy Hopkins. I bought it more than 4 years ago. When I read this chicklit again, I couldn’t help but to smile at myself for the memory. This is my first English reading ever. I mean, in terms of book’s type.
This chicklit once helped me to make a decision in my life. I remembered that I was in doubt, of ending the relationship or continue with LDR. After reading it, I decided to end the relationship. I was feed with the thought,”Who needs boys, especially those who always check on you every single minutes? I’m still young, being single is better than being tied up. I shall focus on my study. bla bla bla.”
That’s how a seventeen-years-old girl made a decision. By reading a chicklit, instead of a self-improvement book or even ‘Mars vs. Venus’ kind of book. Even easier than deciding which term life insurance quote to go for.
Sunday, June 8th, 2008
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Wednesday, May 14th, 2008
On its last episode, Xiao Mai (Angela Zhang) is about to go to America for 3 years. The night before her departure, Jin (Wu Zun) wasn’t able to come back home and accompany her. Because he was busy with office work, preparing for tomorrow contract. On Xiao Mai departure day, Jin comes late but still able to see her. And it ends with a very long goodbye kiss.
It reminds me about my last visit to KL. The night before leaving-on-a-jet-plane, the boyfriend was busy discussing a forum name with the guys up until 2am something. -__-” Hello? It’s about building a forum not even a New York Moving Company that is listed on the stock market. As if they couldn’t do it on the other day. They still have lots of time to see each other, while I don’t. The tiger inside me was about to wake up and ate them alive, but I didn’t want to spoil their friendship.
Duh, man is a very in-sensitive creature.
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