Surpise surprise!!

Last night on msn, I asked the boyfriend when will he come to Medan. It’s middle of June, ain’t that semester break time? But, he said he still have submission on this Friday and he can only come here in the next two weeks. I was oh-so-down, patah semangat.

Then this morning, almost 9am, I was surfing the internet when the door bell rang. Oh well, who would come here early in the morning? As I open the door, there he was, a very familiar figure that was supposed to be in KL at that very moment. My man is here!!!

Now I understand what did Yen means by,”somebody please be prepared for a surprise”. Er, I supposed I am correct about what she means, if I am wrong, never mind.

I am going to sleep with a huge smile on my face tonight.

Making decision with a chicklit

Mates, Dates and Sole Survivors is one of the chicklit series by Cathy Hopkins. I bought it more than 4 years ago. When I read this chicklit again, I couldn’t help but to smile at myself for the memory. This is my first English reading ever. I mean, in terms of book’s type.

This chicklit once helped me to make a decision in my life. I remembered that I was in doubt, of ending the relationship or continue with LDR. After reading it, I decided to end the relationship. I was feed with the thought,”Who needs boys, especially those who always check on you every single minutes? I’m still young, being single is better than being tied up. I shall focus on my study. bla bla bla.”

That’s how a seventeen-years-old girl made a decision. By reading a chicklit, instead of a self-improvement book or even ‘Mars vs. Venus’ kind of book. Even easier than deciding which term life insurance quote to go for.

Ending of Romantic Princess

On its last episode, Xiao Mai (Angela Zhang) is about to go to America for 3 years. The night before her departure, Jin (Wu Zun) wasn’t able to come back home and accompany her. Because he was busy with office work, preparing for tomorrow contract. On Xiao Mai departure day, Jin comes late but still able to see her. And it ends with a very long goodbye kiss.

It reminds me about my last visit to KL. The night before leaving-on-a-jet-plane, the boyfriend was busy discussing a forum name with the guys up until 2am something. -__-” Hello? It’s about building a forum not even a New York Moving Company that is listed on the stock market. As if they couldn’t do it on the other day. They still have lots of time to see each other, while I don’t. The tiger inside me was about to wake up and ate them alive, but I didn’t want to spoil their friendship.

Duh, man is a very in-sensitive creature.

Men are weird creature

When a woman (girlfriend/wife) asks for a man’s help in several matters, he says she is so annoying and dependent. He wishes she can settle things by herself, at least for a small matter.

When a woman settle the problems by herself, man thinks he is useless and she doesn’t need him anymore. He wishes she would turn to him for help on repairing the used cisco.

When a woman is employed (full time or internship) and man isn’t, he thinks that he is so useless and lose from a woman.

I say, sooner or later, man will die because of their ego.

10 things I like about him

This year, our relationship is hitting the number 4. Yeap, we are together for about 4 years already, although both of us don’t know when is the exact date of anniversary.

Though this boyfriend of mine has a pai kia face, but he is a teddy bear inside. The sweetest, most-understand-me, kindest man on this earth. Er, after my dad.

Here is the 10 things I like about the boyfriend in a random order:

1. He cooks for me, from the first time we met until now. I am good in doing other house chores but damn lousy when it comes to cooking. I still remember my kitchen disaster that happened last month.

2. He is not egoist, always thinks about other people first then only himself. Too good to be true and yet some people take it for granted.

3. He is willing to carry me on his back when I couldn’t walk. From the house, go downstairs, walk through the slope road to the nearest clinic which is not very near when I couldn’t walk. And not for one time.

4. He is a very responsible man. Instead of running away and blame others, he faces the problem and the consequences. No matter how big the problem is.

5. He always be there for me, through ups and downs, when my heels are over my head, when the world is falling apart on me.

6. He always thinks positive with lotsa possibilities. Sometimes I envy him for having this positive thinking, because I am his opposite. Typical melancholy, with negative thinking, always looks for the bad side of one thing. Well, he is the ‘Michael Scofield’ who will tell me to have a little faith. That there is a hope and possibility.

7. He is smart, knows a lot of things, thinks logically. So what if he didn’t score good during the high school time and he wasn’t good in memorizing the text book. He has the mixture of einstein and da vinci brain.

8. He is willing to help me wear the high heels with complicated straps. Sometimes I am standing and find trouble in wearing it, he will knee down and help me, whether it is at home or shoes store. So sweet.

9. He doesn’t roll his eyes on other woman quietly. Instead, he take upon to tell me, not only about the ugly one but also the pretty woman.

10. He sings song for me with the customize lyrics, depending on my mood and situation.

Back home, again

It’s a smooth journey from LCCT (Malaysia) to Polonia Airport (Medan). The flight was earlier a few minutes and it was full if not almost. Things moved so fast that after the immigration part I found my luggage was ‘dumped’ on the floor already. Whew~! The first time ever I don’t need to wait for the luggage.

Anyway, back home make me worry about 2 things : black out and limited internet connection. Duh. There is good side and bad side of going back home, of course. One month in KL, I really didn’t wish to go back home yet. I am bad, for leaving the family back home. But.. ah.. let’s not talk about it first.

About my next plan, it will be freelance and building the internet project from the boyfriend. Need to earn more money so that we can fly to meet each other more often without making a hole in our wallet. And of course for the other plan. We have pass 1/4 of year 2008. The next 3/4, we will go with the flow.

I have faith in this relationship.

Time’s up

Yeap, it’s almost 1 month already.

I’ll go back home in 3 1/2 hours time.

Bye bye Malaysia…

Til then.

Que Sera Sera. What will be will be.

Your ex has get over you when..

His primary email with your name as the password is no longer usable and accessible.
- He wants to get rid of whatever that can remind him of you.

You no longer received ‘Happy Valentine’ sms from him. And maybe no more ‘Happy Birthday’ sms too. But you will still receive ‘Happy New Year and Merry Christmas’ sms.
- Valentine = love celebration = lovebird. New Year & Christmas = celebration = everyone. See the difference?

You won’t find this ‘I am still single’ - hidden statement coming from him during your conversation or sms. Instead, he is inserting his new girlfriend in it.
- so damn obvious man..

He said he will assured his new girlfriend that it’s fine for him to have lunch with you. But he never texts you back since then.
- So the girlfriend is more powerful than you now. He is no longer under your ’spell’.

When you realized that, you feel a bit of disappointed. Not because love is still hanging in the air. But because you have lost one of your FANS. You feel good knowing that someone is still after you, even though he has gone through the painful break-up. It’s all goes back to the ego.

The minute you are clear, you realized it’s a selfish act. You can smile and breath freely. There is no longer guilty feeling because you have moved on while he was still hanging there and hoping. What you feel now is a relief. Finally, that chapter is ended. You can close the book and store it in the library with the other story books of your life.